Blissdom Advice For First Timers…Post Contains Hugging

by Mary Anne on January 28, 2010

This time next week, I will be the happiest woman alive. Why you ask? Because I will be with all my friends at Blissdom and I cannot wait.

In getting ready for this years event, I thought back to last year when I was scared to death, didn’t know a soul and my blog was only six months old.

My how times have changed.

It made me think that rather than just hearing about the conference itself, I would have really liked to have heard what to expect as a “newbie”. Things that would have made me feel a little less jittery walking through the doors of the hotel.

So if you are new to this event, or if you just don’t have anything better to read at this particular moment, here is a list of things you should know:

  • Everyone is nice.   I didn’t encounter one single person who was mean to me.   If someone is mean to you, come find me and I’ll take care of it post haste.  And then I’ll probably hug you.
  • You won’t be sitting alone.   People sitting at tables with extra seats will generally be very welcoming of you joining them.   If you do find yourself sitting alone, come find me and I’ll sit with you.  Or on your lap.  Your call.  Either option probably also involves hugging of some sort.
  • Take layered clothes.   Doesn’t matter how fancy the hotel, they can never get the temperature just right.   You will find yourself either too cold or too hot.   If you are too cold, come find me and I’ll hug you until you warm up.   If you are too hot?   I don’t know, the only thing I can do is throw you in the pool and I don’t think you want that.
  • Take a good mixture of clothes.   There will be at least one day you probably don’t change from what you wore during the day and one night you may find you want to dress up.   Take stuff that mixes and matches so that when you invariably freak out and don’t know what to wear, you have a lot of options.     If you freak out, call me.   I’ll show up with a bottle of wine in hand, hug you and tell you to get over it.
  • Take business cards.   Listen to me…this one is important. Even if you have to print them up yourself, be sure to have a few hundred on hand.   You will probably be able to tuck them into your name tag and you will want to be able to refresh your supply often.   If you don’t bring business cards, I may not hug you, because my eye sight is starting to go and I won’t be able to read your name tag and I can’t just be hugging on total strangers can I?   (Well, yes I could but this is my feeble attempt to get you to do what I say.)

Above all, come with a great attitude and expect to walk away with a whole lot of new friends.  I know I did last year, and I cannot wait to see each and every one of those lovely ladies again next Thursday!

Come find me…and don’t be surprised when I give you a giant hug.

You have been warned.

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{ 31 comments… read them below or add one }

1 rachel January 28, 2010 at 6:42 pm

I simply cannot wait to hug you.

2 Linda January 28, 2010 at 6:44 pm

I feel a huggin coming on…

3 Amy from She Wears Many Hats January 28, 2010 at 6:46 pm

Thanks so much for the post. I’ve been finding myself a little hesitant and not knowing what to expect. I’ll look for you and the stilettos.

4 Rachel Boldman January 28, 2010 at 6:50 pm

I love hugs, AND I’m a Newbie!!!! I’m excited to met you at Blissdom!

Rachel

5 the mayor January 28, 2010 at 7:45 pm

I’m a reluctant hugger. Well, not concerning you personally because I know you and really like you. Ah well, when in Rome do as the …. I’ll manage.

What to pack, that is always a conundrum. I guess it’s my burden to bare to take myself to the mall.

Can’t wait to see you on Thursday.

6 Sprite's Keeper January 28, 2010 at 7:48 pm

I am SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO jealous right now. The only hug I am demanding from you is the one you MUST GIVE Harry Connick Jr. and then make him autograph something for me and make him remember to do a shout out when he comes to my town for a concert on Feb 12 and I’ll be in the audience and yell back “Stiletto!!!!” Promise!

7 Erin aka JANE4girls January 28, 2010 at 7:55 pm

okay, I have never met you and I love you already. I am a Blissdom newbie…so will need some hugging.

8 pamela January 28, 2010 at 8:57 pm

yeah…all your friends but me.

9 paige January 28, 2010 at 9:04 pm

Have fun!

I am so jealous

10 justmakingourway January 29, 2010 at 6:00 am

Have a great time with all the hugging! *chin up, don’t cry now*

11 Mo January 29, 2010 at 6:17 am

I get a hug?

Or only if I attend Blissdom?

12 Poppy Buxom January 29, 2010 at 6:49 am

I just had a brilliant idea! Instead of regular business cards, I’ll be passing Huggies with my blog’s name printed on them! Everyone will be so happy to get a free disposable diaper that they’ll hug me. And then their kids will pee on my blog.

OK, maybe it wasn’t such a great idea.

13 Texasholly January 29, 2010 at 7:34 am

Really fun suggestions. I wish I was going to BlissDom, but I am using your advice at Mom 2.0 which will be my very first blogging conference ever. Since you probably won’t be there I will just choose a stranger to sit on the lap of instead.

14 Jana January 29, 2010 at 8:18 am

Oh thanking my lucky stars for you right now, I am super nervous, and I am sweating just thinking about it, really. Thanks for this post! See you there!

15 Rhoda @ Southern Hospitality January 29, 2010 at 9:09 am

I was a newbie last year too, but oh what a difference a year makes. Maybe I’ll get to meet you this time. Can’t wait either to catch up with old friends and make some new ones!

16 Michele January 29, 2010 at 9:23 am

Now I am so sad that I’m not going…I’d love to meet you!

17 Laryssa @ Heaven In The Home January 29, 2010 at 11:22 am

Thanks for the advice. I was new last year too…sure could have used some of this kind of encouragement! I was standing around feeling award for too long. Some kind bloggers included me in their group and things just got better from there!

18 schmutzie January 29, 2010 at 12:21 pm

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19 Suzy Voices January 29, 2010 at 2:45 pm

I’m jealous!!!

20 Kate Coveny Hood January 29, 2010 at 7:38 pm

I think you are adorable and I’m sad I won’t be there to collect my hug. I would love to go to this one – but it’s bad timing. Just got my ticket to BlogHer though (first time) – so maybe I’ll see you there?

21 abdpbt January 29, 2010 at 7:48 pm

Grr. I wish I was going! Have fun, all of you!

22 The Lawyer Mom January 29, 2010 at 9:22 pm

Grr # 2 here. Wish I were going, too. But here’s a big hug to you.

23 Irish Gumbo January 30, 2010 at 6:33 am

I’m freaking out right now…if i supply the plane ticket, will you give me a hug? (grin)

Have fun and pace yourself on the hugs. Don’t want to burn out!

24 Carolyn Online January 30, 2010 at 7:48 am

Oh man. I wish I was going to get a hug. Blissdom is not in my immediate future. Have fun in Opryland!

25 Cyndi January 30, 2010 at 8:26 am

Have a great time – I am so far behind, but working backwards….like most of my life ;-) Hugs!

26 Elisa January 30, 2010 at 1:40 pm

aw, I wish I could be there! have lots of fun.

27 Amo January 30, 2010 at 6:35 pm

Well if I wasn’t a SAD PANDA before….

Sigh.

I’d fly to Texas for a hug right now, dammittohell.

28 Magically Ordinary January 30, 2010 at 6:56 pm

I am so happy I stumbled on to your blog. So great! Looking forward to coming back and reading more!

29 Becky January 31, 2010 at 3:01 pm

Jealous! Those of us who are not there expect a full report.

30 vodkamom February 2, 2010 at 4:44 am

OMG I AM SO EXCITED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

31 MommyLisa February 3, 2010 at 12:50 pm

It amazes me how many of these conferences there are in the world. When I started blogging 2.5 years ago I just did it for a way to put stuff out there.

Hmmm. Maybe one day I will attend one of these things to see what it is all about.

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