This time next week, I will be the happiest woman alive. Why you ask? Because I will be with all my friends at Blissdom and I cannot wait.
In getting ready for this years event, I thought back to last year when I was scared to death, didn’t know a soul and my blog was only six months old.
My how times have changed.
It made me think that rather than just hearing about the conference itself, I would have really liked to have heard what to expect as a “newbie”. Things that would have made me feel a little less jittery walking through the doors of the hotel.
So if you are new to this event, or if you just don’t have anything better to read at this particular moment, here is a list of things you should know:
- Everyone is nice. I didn’t encounter one single person who was mean to me. If someone is mean to you, come find me and I’ll take care of it post haste. And then I’ll probably hug you.
- You won’t be sitting alone. People sitting at tables with extra seats will generally be very welcoming of you joining them. If you do find yourself sitting alone, come find me and I’ll sit with you. Or on your lap. Your call. Either option probably also involves hugging of some sort.
- Take layered clothes. Doesn’t matter how fancy the hotel, they can never get the temperature just right. You will find yourself either too cold or too hot. If you are too cold, come find me and I’ll hug you until you warm up. If you are too hot? I don’t know, the only thing I can do is throw you in the pool and I don’t think you want that.
- Take a good mixture of clothes. There will be at least one day you probably don’t change from what you wore during the day and one night you may find you want to dress up. Take stuff that mixes and matches so that when you invariably freak out and don’t know what to wear, you have a lot of options. If you freak out, call me. I’ll show up with a bottle of wine in hand, hug you and tell you to get over it.
- Take business cards. Listen to me…this one is important. Even if you have to print them up yourself, be sure to have a few hundred on hand. You will probably be able to tuck them into your name tag and you will want to be able to refresh your supply often. If you don’t bring business cards, I may not hug you, because my eye sight is starting to go and I won’t be able to read your name tag and I can’t just be hugging on total strangers can I? (Well, yes I could but this is my feeble attempt to get you to do what I say.)
Above all, come with a great attitude and expect to walk away with a whole lot of new friends. I know I did last year, and I cannot wait to see each and every one of those lovely ladies again next Thursday!
Come find me…and don’t be surprised when I give you a giant hug.
You have been warned.
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I simply cannot wait to hug you.
I feel a huggin coming on…
Thanks so much for the post. I’ve been finding myself a little hesitant and not knowing what to expect. I’ll look for you and the stilettos.
I love hugs, AND I’m a Newbie!!!! I’m excited to met you at Blissdom!
Rachel
I’m a reluctant hugger. Well, not concerning you personally because I know you and really like you. Ah well, when in Rome do as the …. I’ll manage.
What to pack, that is always a conundrum. I guess it’s my burden to bare to take myself to the mall.
Can’t wait to see you on Thursday.
I am SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO jealous right now. The only hug I am demanding from you is the one you MUST GIVE Harry Connick Jr. and then make him autograph something for me and make him remember to do a shout out when he comes to my town for a concert on Feb 12 and I’ll be in the audience and yell back “Stiletto!!!!” Promise!
okay, I have never met you and I love you already. I am a Blissdom newbie…so will need some hugging.
yeah…all your friends but me.
Have fun!
I am so jealous
Have a great time with all the hugging! *chin up, don’t cry now*
I get a hug?
Or only if I attend Blissdom?
I just had a brilliant idea! Instead of regular business cards, I’ll be passing Huggies with my blog’s name printed on them! Everyone will be so happy to get a free disposable diaper that they’ll hug me. And then their kids will pee on my blog.
OK, maybe it wasn’t such a great idea.
Really fun suggestions. I wish I was going to BlissDom, but I am using your advice at Mom 2.0 which will be my very first blogging conference ever. Since you probably won’t be there I will just choose a stranger to sit on the lap of instead.
Oh thanking my lucky stars for you right now, I am super nervous, and I am sweating just thinking about it, really. Thanks for this post! See you there!
I was a newbie last year too, but oh what a difference a year makes. Maybe I’ll get to meet you this time. Can’t wait either to catch up with old friends and make some new ones!
Now I am so sad that I’m not going…I’d love to meet you!
Thanks for the advice. I was new last year too…sure could have used some of this kind of encouragement! I was standing around feeling award for too long. Some kind bloggers included me in their group and things just got better from there!
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I’m jealous!!!
I think you are adorable and I’m sad I won’t be there to collect my hug. I would love to go to this one – but it’s bad timing. Just got my ticket to BlogHer though (first time) – so maybe I’ll see you there?
Grr. I wish I was going! Have fun, all of you!
Grr # 2 here. Wish I were going, too. But here’s a big hug to you.
I’m freaking out right now…if i supply the plane ticket, will you give me a hug? (grin)
Have fun and pace yourself on the hugs. Don’t want to burn out!
Oh man. I wish I was going to get a hug. Blissdom is not in my immediate future. Have fun in Opryland!
Have a great time – I am so far behind, but working backwards….like most of my life
Hugs!
aw, I wish I could be there! have lots of fun.
Well if I wasn’t a SAD PANDA before….
Sigh.
I’d fly to Texas for a hug right now, dammittohell.
I am so happy I stumbled on to your blog. So great! Looking forward to coming back and reading more!
Jealous! Those of us who are not there expect a full report.
OMG I AM SO EXCITED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It amazes me how many of these conferences there are in the world. When I started blogging 2.5 years ago I just did it for a way to put stuff out there.
Hmmm. Maybe one day I will attend one of these things to see what it is all about.